EgoCentrism

Egocentrism is a characteristic of a child in its preoperational stage (age 2-7) of having the tendancy or being likely to believe that others look at things the same way as oneself, neglecting others' perspectives. This stage prevails even as we grow. For example, some people think that they are good and wonders why they aren't appreciated but forget that what is good to one might not be to another. We have to keep in mind that different people have different perspectives and not getting acceptance by one or some, doesn't mean we aren't good =).

Money Well Spent???

Has anyone not done anything stupid in life?

I lent someone $400 years ago when he told me how poor he was but I see him going to salon to do his hair, buy new laptop, new clothes and working still, while I was just a JC kid who happened to saved enough to lend him my hard saved money...

That guy never intend to return as he told me "...my friend lend me thousands and never demand for a return..." I still lend him the money as I thought we can be good friends at least and my friend once told me that to spend a few hundreds to see through a person is worth it...

Now, I see him wearing Gucci, Channel, Y-3, etc and I think we aren't really friends. Felt that I am being make used of and he is really disgusting... OMG...